We live in a culture that hates surrender.  We loathe the idea of losing, and losing is an awful lot like surrender.  We are taught to create our ‘best’ life.  To dream our own dreams and then chase after them.  Whatever you want to be – you can be it!  Whatever you think you will excel at, well, strive after that. I heard it all through school, “What do YOU want to be?” I never knew the answer. I picked the wrong thing when I graduated at 17 and decided I’d go into Television Production.  I chuckle deep every time I think about how insanely wrong that choice was for…